We are a dedicated dating and support community for singles living with STDs like HSV, HPV, and HIV across the UK. Whether you’re looking for romance, companionship, or simply a safe space to chat without the usual stigma, you’ll find a welcoming, judgement-free crowd here.

Absolutely. We take your privacy incredibly seriously. Your personal details, photos, and health status are strictly protected in line with UK data protection regulations (GDPR). You have full control over who sees your profile, and we never sell your data to third parties.

We encourage honesty, but the choice is entirely yours. Disclosing your condition (like HSV-2 or HPV) on your profile can actually save you from the dreaded “disclosure talk” later on, as you’ll be matching with people who already understand and accept your situation completely.

While our community is fantastic for emotional support and sharing day-to-day management tips, we aren’t a medical platform. For proper medical advice, prescriptions, or regular check-ups, you should always consult your GP or visit your local NHS sexual health clinic (GUM clinic).

Definitely. While we have a massive user base in major cities like London, Manchester, and Birmingham, our community spans the entire UK. Whether you’re up in the Scottish Highlands, down in Cornwall, or anywhere in between, our location filters help you find local singles or those willing to travel for the right connection.

To keep the community safe and weed out time-wasters, we have a robust photo verification system. Look out for the verification badge on profiles. We actively monitor the site to ensure it remains a genuine environment for everyone to date with peace of mind.

It’s completely normal to feel a bit anxious about having “the chat.” Our community forums and anonymous Q&A sections are brilliant resources. You can read how other Brits have navigated these conversations, get advice on breaking the ice, and build your confidence before heading out for a pint or a coffee.

Yes, it’s not just about matching! We host lively discussion forums, anonymous Q&A boards, and treatment story blogs. It’s a proper community where you can have a natter, share your experiences, and offer or receive support from people who truly “get it.”

100%. A diagnosis doesn’t mean your love life is over. Every day, members from all over the UK find meaningful, long-lasting relationships here. When the pressure of hiding a secret is gone, you can focus on what actually matters: having a laugh, sharing common interests, and building a genuine connection.

Of course. If you’ve found your perfect match and want to crack on with your relationship offline, you can easily hide your profile or permanently delete your account. Once deleted, all your details and photos are completely wiped from our system, leaving no digital footprint.